Let me ask you a question.

Does your truth live in your daily life?

Lilian Hii

Not in theory.

Not in conversation.

Not in intention.

In lived reality.

Or somewhere between the head and heart, apparently.

Wait To Be Lived.

Don’t do that.

Don’t wait.

It is like you forever have entire shelves of books waiting for you to read but you keep buying new books and feeling never enough and one day I will read it…in the next holiday… in the next weekend ….

That one day…….

We all have been there, exactly the same situation.

Waiting for one day or some day is creating energy stagnant and stucked.

life will always present situations that test what we say we believe.

Not to punish us.

But to stabilise what is still unintegrated.

When similar challenges kept reappearing in my life, I stopped asking “Why does this keep happening?” and started asking “What is life inviting me to practice here?”

There are all “conscious - data”.

That shift alone changed how I met difficulty.

I remember a period where I kept encountering the same dynamic in different relationships — this pattern of over-functioning, of trying to manage everyone’s experience, of exhausting myself in service of keeping things smooth. I knew intellectually that this wasn’t sustainable. I’d read about boundaries. I understood codependency.

But understanding didn’t change the pattern.

Only lived practice did.

Each time the situation arose and I chose differently — even awkwardly, even imperfectly — the pattern loosened its grip. Life wasn’t punishing me with repetition. It was offering me practice grounds.

Experience Is the Living Truth

When something didn’t work, I didn’t interpret it as failure. I treated it as feedback and also bio-feedback.

What was aligned? What was premature? What was still operating from old identity or old software?

No performance. Only presence.

Facing the truth is vulnerable. We face with curiosity and not with shame.

These weren’t moral failures. They were invitations to close the gap between knowing and being.

When you learn 3 things, implement 1 thing in your business or a new creativity for you to try. Share 1 thing with your love one and journey another 1 thing.

Implement and applying

Integrate and embody it

Small changes.

Real situations.

Honest self-reflection.

Then we will change how I respond, see, feel sense, relationships shifted, decisions clarified, energy stabilised.

Not because I tried harder, but because I became congruent.

A Lived Inquiry

Instead of asking “Do I understand this?” try asking “How am I living this today — in one small way?”

Embodiment always begins small.

Not grand gestures. Not dramatic transformations. Just one choice, one moment, one response at a time.

Each time you apply instead of accumulate, adjust instead of judge, and live instead of perform, truth stabilises.

It moves from something you know to something you are. Not perfectly. Not permanently. But progressively, as you choose it again and again in the moments that matter.

Closing Reflection

I no longer ask if something is right or wrong. I ask if it is lived.

Because lived truth doesn’t need defending. It simply becomes who you are.

Not as performance. Not as spiritual achievement. But as the natural expression of what you’ve integrated so deeply that it now informs how you stand, how you speak, how you choose, how you love.

The teachings don’t belong on the shelf. They belong in your relationships, your work, your solitude, your challenges. They belong in the ordinary moments where no one is watching and nothing is at stake except your own integrity.

That’s where verification happens. Not in the knowing, but in the living.

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